My friend recently asked me how to gap her ass with a dildo. I was a bit surprised since I did not know she would be into that kind of thing. But then I figured, why not let her know what I know. And I have to say that it’s actually a lot easier than it sounds.
First of all, you’re going to need the right size dildo. Too much or too little can make a huge difference in how the experience goes. I recommend going in store and vibrators trying out a few different sizes to find the one that is just right. It can also help to test against your finger first, so that you don’t end up getting something too big!
Secondly, you should always make sure your dildo is properly cleaned and lubed before use. You don’t want any kind of nasty bacteria getting into your ass. And Penis Rings lube will help make everything smoother and much more enjoyable.
Third, the actual gap process should be done slowly and carefully. It always helps if you keep yourself relaxed and take a few deep breaths before you start. That way, you’ll be better prepared for any sensations or pressures you might feel.
Fourth, don’t forget to give yourself time to adjust to the gap. Once you’ve gotten it in, just take a few minutes to relax and let your body move and shift against it. This will help you work your way up to a comfortable position, and also reduce any potential pain.
And finally, once you’re all set up, don’t forget to enjoy it. Experiment with a few different kinds of movements and find some that really work for you. This will make it a much more enjoyable experience, and you’ll be all the more satisfied when you’re done.
Now, after explaining all that to my friend, I realized just how important it is to take the time to understand the techniques for gapping with a dildo. And that’s why I highly recommend playing around a bit with the techniques until you find something that works for you. Besides, it’s not like it’s a race or anything.
Let’s start with temperature—it is incredibly important to make sure your dildo is not too cold or too hot. The way you can do this is to keep a towel or something similar ready and use it to test out your dildo before you use it. And as mentioned before, make sure you lube up your dildo as well!
Next up is the pressure. When using a dildo for gapping, it should be a slow and gradual process. This will prevent any pain or discomfort, and will also help your body get used to the sensation. And don’t be afraid to take a few pauses here and there if you feel that it’s becoming too much.
Now that you’ve got your dildo in place, it’s time to start exploring. Literally. Take a few moments to just move your body against the dildo and get a feel for what it’s like. You can experiment with different movements—wiggling, shaking, whatever you like. That way you can find the ones that truly hit the spot.
And finally, enjoy it. I know it may sound odd, but if you just focus on the pleasure aspects and let go of any thoughts about the process, you’ll really be able to embrace the experience. So don’t be afraid to just let yourself feel.
Gapping with a dildo is not something I had expected my friend to be interested in. But, after I explained the techniques for doing it properly, I think I may have converted her. She now seems to be more enthusiastic and confident about it, and I’m proud of her for taking the time to really understand what it takes to have a great gapping experience.