When I first heard about it, I’m not gonna lie I was kinda like, ‘What the heck?!’. I mean, it’s not something I had ever heard of before and I couldn’t believe that there were guys actually doing it. Obviously it wasn’t something I was into and I found it quite uncomfortable to even think about.
However, vibrators curiosity got the better of me so I decided to do some research. I found out that this strange practice involves using a sex toy or a home-made device that helps the guys to give a certain sensation and pleasure. I was surprised to find that it is becoming increasingly popular amongst men. To be honest, it made me feel a little bit weirded out.
That said, it also made me see that it is possible to take control and find different ways to experience pleasure and arousal. At the end of the day, if it helps men to reach orgasm it can’t be all that bad. Plus, it’s the guys’ business what kind of pleasure they want to have, so who are we to judge?
I had a good conversation with a friend who practices it and he explained to me why he likes it so much and the benefits it has for him. He said that it helped him to better understand and Penis Rings explore his own body and what turns him on, which is great.
The funny thing is, my friend also told me that female friends had suggested trying the strange practice out. It’s like they know everything about it, or at least have more knowledge than guys do. I find it really cool that girls are way more in tune with their own bodies and sexuality than guys, and it’s inspiring.
Talking more about sex openly and normalising it more will arguably also help fight the stigma, which is something I’m really all for. For me, it’s about allowing people to explore themselves while still having a respectful relationship with others.
Overall, I guess this strange male masturbating practice is a personal choice that should be respected as long as it’s consensual. To sum it up, if something is out there and it works for some, good for them.